EVIL STEPMOTHER

I will start off saying that all stepmothers are not evil but the one my children has to deal with fits into the evil category without a doubt. Call this a venting blog but I have had enough with her ranting and raving about my children. My ex-husband married this monster because he was in love with the idea of being in love and wanted a wife. He met her online, like he did with all of the other women he had dated after we divorced and every single one of them he fell in love with and she was going to be the one he married. But as luck goes the one that married him wanted a husband just as bad as he wanted a wife so they got married for all the wrong reasons and now my kids are paying for his mistake.

When my kids first met this monster of a woman, she was as sweet as can be to them. She did the usual to impress them by buying them gifts, telling them that she loved them, and would take them out for all the fun things I couldn’t afford to do. She was a dream come true to my kids but as time went on they saw her true colors. Just to give you a little background on my ex-husband and me, we agreed to a non-contested divorce and when it came to the kids we agreed to let them live with me and he would get them on the weekends and he would pay half for everything that had to do with the kids. Everything was working fine between him and I except for the paying half for the kids but I let it slide because he was going through some hard times with jobs and such. When the evil one entered the picture that is when everything started to go downhill between us.

Once my ex-husband popped the question of marriage to her and she accepted, she then started to change her tune when it came to my kids. Now my kids were pitted against her two kids, with mine are better than yours crap. She would bad mouth me in front of my kids as well as my exes’ family and would tell my kids that I didn’t love them. To say I was livid is to put it mildly I was beyond livid. When I talked to my ex-husband on the matter he said he would talk to her but nothing ever came of it. She kept right on going with belittling my kids behind his back and still does today. I am the one that has to deal with their tears when they come home to me. Believe me if I had the money I would get a lawyer and take full custody of my children so they wouldn’t have to deal with this monster but since I pay about 90% in supporting them the funds just aren’t there.

The evil one latest rant is that my son is going to go to college instead of taking a vocational class for HVAC because that is what I think he should do and my son wants to do it. My son has never been a strong student in school and has had to deal with a learning disability so school for him is tough. So him and I thought it would be best for him to learn a skill that he could go out and make a good living after he graduates from high school. Then if he wanted to he could go to college later but at least he would always have a skill to fall back on if college didn’t work out for him. To me this was just a common sense thing for my son to do but the evil one told him over her dead body that this was going to happen. To me this monster has real balls to even think she has a say in what my son does for his future. Personally I think she needs to be jack-slap for opening her mouth.

I would love to see the evil one and my ex split up for the sake of my children. To me this is just not healthy for them to be around her. I get so tired of picking them up every weekend to hear that she told my daughter she is a fat thief, my son is dumb, their father’s mother is an alcoholic, their stepfather (my husband) is lazy, and I am a slut. I am fed up with her saying she is going to take me to court and take my kids away from me, to be honest; I am just plain fed up with her and her big mouth. I know if we ever came face to face she wouldn’t have the balls to trash me because anyone that knows me knows she wouldn’t have a hope in hell with me. I have taken down men bigger than me and she would be just a fly on the wall for me. Who knows it may just have to come to that point but she is forcing the issue with me when she treats my kids that way. She should know better than to harass the cubs of a grizzly bear mom and that is what she is doing to me.

I feel I am in a catch 22 right now. I don’t want to make things worse for my kids because if she knew they told me everything she would make their lives harder and they really want to see their dad. Their dad on the other hand does nothing to stop her and is not willing to come and visit the kids on the weekend. I on the other hand know what I have to do but don’t have the money to do. So I just keep pulling my hair out, give my kids advice on how to handle the witch, and pray I don’t meet her face to face because I will stomp her a** if I do.

This is a sad sorry situation my kids are in and I feel helpless as to what I should do with this evil witch. I just hope God gives me strength from ripping her apart and tells me what I should do to help my kids because I am at wits end.